When expectations do not match reality

Often, once we have the notion and expectation that all beautiful. Sometimes we dream can become a successful person with a sufficient income to make the people we love around us. Sometimes we also expect to gain something, such as awards, attention, from the people around us.

Unfortunately, very often what we expect does not match the reality that exists. We often feel disappointed with the events that does not match that we would want it. If such a one?

According to me, may we have the vision and expectations of other people. But the need to remember that other people are still people and not ourselves, in other words that we can not apply our selfish desire to force the other people, other people have the right time to act in accordance with her rights. While we can only hope I hope we just get the desire. In the case of what? Everything, from the award, honor, reward, praise, and so forth.

The solution is, we can only hope to others, but do not do and to impose a variety of ways to get our expectations. And the most important is, we must first respect the rights of others as our obligation, we will automatically will get the award from other people as well.

Or does not believe that life in this world there is the term law of nature (sunatullah). If we do good for others surely we will have the goodness of other people. But if we do badness of other people, please you are waiting for you to plant another person is bound to befall you, may be even worse.

This I have experienced their own, when I do good or bad for others, I often get replies. If you also want to ask yourself, has the obligation of you your rights? Try to think about your answer in your heart, and hold a follow-up of what your answer is.

There is no ivory that is not cracked, but we can still try to minimize shortages and improve us.

If only we can better apply to all people, life is so beautiful!